Extraordinary People – Finding out how to make the Spark Shine

Ever wonder what energizes people? Well. I think it is positive feedback and approval. We talk of basic human requirements and forget the most important one. Each individual has a spark. It makes their lives meaningful. It makes them extraordinary people. But how can we make that spark shine?

Everyone desires love and appreciation. When they receive it, the spark inside of us shines! So, by giving appreciation and love, you too will be receiving it back (tenfold).  Why? Because, what you focus upon expands. That is what the Law of Attraction teaches us.

We are all connected by a fiber of human spirit. By mirroring love and appreciation, we create a world that grows with extraordinary people.

Start doing it now. Remember kind words someone said to you that brightened up your day. Or a teacher that may have once praised you for a job well done. Small token, but a big difference.

Now it is your turn,  find the extraordinary in the ordinary… even if it is  something you think as trivial… it all begins with action. Many people close themselves to communication in fear of being rejected. Give genuine praise and they will warm up instantly.

Write good traits of people you know in your gratitude journal. Think of anyone close to you, that you work with or your family. Start making a list like this:

• He tries to help in his way. I appreciate his sincerity.
• He makes me laugh when I am down. I appreciate his concern.
• He tries to do chores to reduce my burden. I appreciate the effort.
• He brings my favorite ice-cream when I ask for it, even if it’s the middle of the night. I love and appreciate his selflessness.

And so on.

You get the general idea? These traits were in him/her all along, you just never noticed them as extraordinary.

Writing the list isn’t all. Tell the person you appreciate him/her for all those things. Try this and see how happy it makes you. A drastically positive change will occur in the world if people start praising each other.

Remember that praise is different from flattery. A genuine praise is the keystone of changing people’s lives for the better. It makes the ordinary turn into extraordinary people. That is the spark of human spirit. Ignite it by appreciating others. Keep it alive.

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